【動畫】手足多衝突,父母點介入?
「哥哥打我呀!」「細佬撩我先架!」手足之間像是鬥氣冤家般很常見。伊利諾伊大學專門研究家庭關係的教授 Dr. Laurie Kramer曾經研究過,3至7歲的手足平均每小時發生3.5次衝突,一個小時有六分一時間都在爭執,這個問題令不少家長頭痛,但亦有些家長認為:「細路仔鬧下交、爭下玩具好正常,無咩大不了啫?大個咗就自然唔會架啦!」你以為他們長大後就會相處得好?但這是否事實?
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