【動畫】如何教養出高自尊而不自戀的孩子?

你身邊有自戀狂朋友嗎?有沒有遇過極度自大的上司?他們過份自我感覺良好,歡迎別人的讚美同奉承,卻拒絕接受他人的意見,甚至會惱羞成怒。

很多人會覺得,這些人天生性格如此。但在阿姆斯特丹大學任教的Dr. Eddie Brummelman告訴我們,超級無敵自戀狂很大機會是教養出來的。

如果我地唔想培育出咁嘅子女,就要睇睇我哋呢條片喇~

參考資料

  • Brummelman, E. (2014, December 02). The problem with telling your kids they’re ‘special’. Retrieved from The Washington Post.
  • Brummelman, E., Thomaes, S., Nelemans, S. A., Castro, B. O., Overbeek, G., & Bushman, B. J. (2015). Origins of narcissism in children. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 201420870. doi:10.1073/pnas.1420870112
  • Brummelman, E., Nelemans, S. A., Thomaes, S., & Castro, B. O. (2017). When Parents’ Praise Inflates, Childrens Self-Esteem Deflates. Child Development, 88(6), 1799-1809. doi:10.1111/cdev.12936
  • Brummelman, E., Gürel, Ç, Thomaes, S., & Sedikides, C. (2018). What Separates Narcissism from Self-esteem? A Social-Cognitive Perspective. Handbook of Trait Narcissism, 47-55. doi:10.1007/978-3-319-92171-6_5
  • Markman, A., Ph.D. (2018, May 22). Narcissism Is Not Just High Self-Esteem. Retrieved from Psychology Today.
  • Pogosyan, M., Ph.D. (2018, September 27). Self-Esteem and Narcissism in Children. Retrieved from Psychology Today.
  • University of Amsterdam. (2017, September 28). Self-esteem in kids: Lavish praise is not the answer, warmth is. Retrieved from ScienceDaily.
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